J'aime la vie

Goodbye dysmenorrhea

2010-05-11T10:24:00.006+02:00

I was chatting with my relatives earlier back in Cebu and I know that one of my nieces was in the room resting because she got cramps on her belly especially during the first day of her period. So I was prompted to write this thing.

I had dysmenorrhea (a painful menstruation) for years and I remember each time I have a period my mother always gave me a bottle of black beer or called it "serbesa negra". She told me that if I drink it will make the blood out more and more and will ease me up. Well, I had tried this but for me it did not work on my cramps, but one thing it worked well for me, I began to like the beer as early as in my teens. And obviously I love beers today!

So during my teens I had suffered this pain, so unpleasant that I don't want to move or do, all I want is to rest, but if it's during school days I force myself to go to school because I don't want to be absent from the class anyway. And I can't forget the time when I collapsed because of this cramp just right in front of my teacher. It was my Physics laboratory class and we were sitted all and in the big table my teacher demonstrating the various tools, etc. I suddenly bowed my head and became unconscious so they brought me to the clinic. When I was awaken they gave me something to take, 250mg Midol and since then this pain reliver became my bestfriend during the times I have my period.

Some people said that dysmenorrhea will be gone after giving birth. I prove them right. When I have my period after giving birth to la grande I didn't feel any pain in my belly. After two months of giving birth I had seen my OB-Gyne for a compulsory check-up and I had the time to asked her about the cramps that is gone for good and she said, she had cleaned and had removed some blood from my uterus. I didn't see her doing this thing because after giving birth to la grande I was very tired from the long labor and right after the anesthetist came to me and he said to inject few anesthesia then seconds after I was sleeping. MK was in the room but he never saw the process as there were four nurses surrounding me. When I woke up the doctor told me that she had removed the placenta and had cleaned inside and that everything is okay. And so when I was giving birth to la petite, good thing also that I did not have this hemorrhage and so I was awake all the time. There I saw the doctor cleaning inside my womb and I was surprised because I saw her arm inside almost up to her elbow. Whew! I felt her hand moving inside because my epidural anesthesia began to subside and I'd even felt when she did the stiching. Aww!

Now, I'm happy that I have escaped this dysmenorrhea... forever.

Bon, c'était une bonne expérience. (Well, it was a good experience.)

One bad day

2010-04-06T11:51:00.015+02:00

March 9, 2010.

Oui, j'arrive dans demi-heure. That was MK's last line before we hang up the phone, saying that he comes/arrives in half an hour.

We agreed to go somewhere the four of us, so MK would be and should be home at 6:30 p.m. I prepared the girls and myself as well so by the time MK arrive, we are ready. Whenever we we have a night out he always gives what hour he comes and he always arrive on time, he never fails. If he is late it would be just a minute or two. Bon, I watched the clock from time to time and it's already past 7 p.m., so I thought MK had a flat tire on his bike. Usually it takes him 30 to 40 minutes passing the three towns before he gets home. Again and again I watch the clock and it's 8 p.m, then 9 p.m. and so on, I thought something is wrong with him.

I called the police station in our town and they said they don't have reports of an accident. Actually, it was in the other town where the accident happened the police municipale failed to contact me for MK gave the wrong number.

It's been almost a year since MK uses a road bike for winter and earth bike for summer going to work and back, that is if the weather is fine -- no rain, no snow. For him biking is the only sport he can do at the moment while he wanted badly to lose some weights. Actually, he did lose some weights, from 105 kilos before, now he weighs 91 kilos by biking every other day, some runnings on weekend and later swimming, well to complete his triathlon wish.

And later in that evening, 15 minutes before midnight, I received a call fom the Doctor saying that hubby had an accident versus a car. He told me not to worry because he is alive and he is taking cared of at the ER, but I couldn't help my tears falling when he said "ll a beaucoup de fractures" and he mentioned those fractures which I couldn't hear clearly. He has/got many fractures, oh and I thought what if he has fractures in the spinal column etc, those important parts, and worst he couldn't walk anymore...etc. all these bothers me the whole night.

The following day we visited the hospital with MK's mom as well. MK had some fractures, in fact the list is almost a page of a bondpaper. To name a few, his right shoulder is severely injured, some broken ribs, etc, his right cheekbone was dislocated and had two surgeries on his face. His head is untouched and his legs are all fine. He was able to walk on the fourth day of his admission.

It was MK's fault, he is suppose to stop on the line where there is "Cedez le passage" or give way sign but instead he continues and bikes so fast that he loses contol when making the right turn, he never made it to the right lane and he ended up in the left lane where the car is coming. The impact is heavy and that it left MK unconscious for minutes and some bloody thing on his face while waiting the ambulance car. A week after MK checked out from the hospital, he called the driver of the car he bumped with. The driver Mr. L. told him that MK was so fast that day and when he brake his bike, his body thrown onto the front of his car. He further said that his car is into pieces and that it is already in the scrapyard. Well, he told us that he will visit the house but he never did.

Now, it's almost a month from his accident, he recovers 80 percent of the fractures but still he keeps his right arm not to use/move much (there is still pain if he force to). I drive him to hospital at least twice a week for checkup and later this month, he will undergo kinesitherapy.

his head is unharm, save by this helmet

Above all, I am thankful to God for saving his life, I'd prefer to be busy all the time taking care of hubby and the girls than losing him.

J'aime la vie quand même. (I love life just the same)

Leaving in 7 hours

2010-02-23T14:59:00.007+01:00

I've been busy and lazy lately. I didn't write a lot even if I'm not that occupied anymore. Well, I'm a little sad to leave Cebu and be apart from my dear friends and family again, but at the same time I'm excited to see la petite for I miss her a lot.

I didn't write much about my vacation here in Cebu, but I will try to write some when I'm back in France.
At the moment, I just checked my luggage if all things I wanted to bring are in. Well, sure my stay here was great and fun with my family and friends around. Only one thing I miss to visit--the beaches which my ear infection prevented me. Next time.

Bon, I'll be leaving in some hours from now...

Blanche's pre-birthday party

2010-02-23T14:13:00.007+01:00

It was an impromptu birthday party (advance) for la grande. Actually, she will turn two years old next month but I was thinking that it would be better to have a little party for her taking advantage of our place--where there are some children.

It was fun to host a kiddie party like this, oh well, we will see next time--when la petite comes here.

Eminent Eights

2010-02-05T09:52:00.013+01:00

It's my turn now...

♥ 8 TV Shows We Like to Watch ♥
Wowowee (Phils)
La France a un incroyable talent (talent show)
Fort Boyard (equivalent to Extra Challenge game)
Un diner presque parfait (cooking)
Secret Story (equivalent to Big Brother)
D&CO (house decoration)
Le Plus Grand Cabaret du Monde (shows of magicians, musicians, circus, etc)
Arte (German TV channel that I used to watch esp. the animals and places discoveries)

♥ 8 Favorite Places to Eat & Drink ♥
Carenderia near home
KFC
Jollibee
Manila restaurant
La France in Robinsons (just for the bread)
Robinsons food court
Sbarro
Any restaurants back in France

♥ 8 Things I Look Forward To ♥
To run in Cebu City Sports Complex Oval next week
Learning how to roller skates back in France
To enroll a swimming lesson
Biking with the girls at least once or twice a week
Going to Switzerland this Spring
Going to Paris and dine in at the tower
Visit to Poland this June
To ride the London Eye or visit Rome this year

♥8 Things that Happened Yesterday ♥
Bathed together with La Grande;
Exchanged emails with MK;
Made a rendez-vous with my former officemates;
Ate a cup of benignit;
Rode a taxi horse with La Grande;
Went to Robinsons and bought a jigsaw for my brother;
Ate balot pinoy in the streets with my friends;
Drank lots of Red Horse beer last night with my brother, sis-in-law, and my gay friend.

♥8 Things I Love about Winter♥
I learn to love winter slowly so I'm interested to learn ice skating, and will do some visits on the mountains next time;
When there is snow I like to see all the places everywhere in white, like a frozen city;
I like to see the people in their fashionable winter outfit;
The best time for me to drink more of my favorite Muscat;
It's nice to go on promenade with the girls, play at the park, no sweat at all;
Our place is quiet, no tourists around this time.

♥ 8 Things I Am Passionate about ♥
Virgin Mary in Lourdes
Family
My two beautiful girls
Friends
Foods
Places
Clothing
shoes

♥ 8 Words/Phrases I Often Use ♥
Since we don't practice English at home, we speak French and Cebuano instead.

Eh alors (So what?);
Bon sang! (Expression use when I hate something);
Ca m'enerve (It irritates me);
Fais au gros dodo (I always say this to La Grande when putting her to sleep)
Bon! (A word to start or end a conversation);

Papa part et Papa revient (La Grande is Papa's girl and to make her understand that she is not that far from MK, I say this phrase to her --Papa leaves and Papa returns, and she speaks the same);

Miam-miam (eating time for La Grande)

Ligo na (if I say this, La Grande will jump out for joy because she knows that she is going to play lots of water)

♥ 8 Things I Learned from the Past ♥
Life is not a matter of chance, it is always a matter of choice;
Nobody's perfect;
Enjoy life;
Laughter is the best medicine.

La Grande's baptism

2010-02-04T06:39:00.011+01:00

The priest pour water onto La Grande's head
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One of the things I plan to do in Cebu is to baptize La Grande. Anyway, we could have done it in La Grande Motte before but I prefer the baptism for the two babies here. And yes, we did it last January 31, 2010 at San Nicolas Church. La Grande was baptized at 22 months old with my friends and ex-officemates as the Godparents (Ninang).

Thanks to all of you mga Mares.

with the Godparents Dondi, Joanne Marie, Tracy, Ollie, Wendy and Sheila

Ready to go home--see you soon Cebu!

2010-01-21T10:38:00.009+01:00

I did not expect that my residence card would be available earlier than I expected. Oh well, I have it now finally and yes everything is ready for our trip to Cebu this coming Monday. I could have written this blog earlier but I've waited until we have secured Blanche's Philippine Visa in Marseille last Tuesday, making sure we complied her tourist entry to Phils. as we are staying more than 21 days.

We are supposed to fly together the four of us, but since MK has just purchased the lot for housing then the plan was changed. Oh welll, save a thousand+ euro for his trip! (I might write on a separate blog for the house update). Anyway, this is my first time flying alone plus a baby in tow, so I hope it will be all fine.

To my family and friends -- à bientôt!

First shots of H1N1 vaccine

2009-12-02T09:01:00.007+01:00

a short promenade after the vaccine

We all know about this new influenza virus H1N1 that is spreading lately and infected some people to various countries. Well, two weeks ago we received a letter from the Health Department here informing that our two girls have to be vaccinated at the specified clinic without rendez-vous, so last Thursday we were at the clinic. Dozens of children and adults alike were in the room waiting to be called. Actually, it's a nationwide vaccine sponsored by the government and as I've seen in the TV no need to be surprised about the waiting thing. So in time of our turn to present the letter, we were asked also if we would like to have ourselves (MK and I) to be vaccinated that day. We sat for a while to think and reading its side effects. I told MK, now that we are here why not take the chance. So the four of us got the first vaccine of H1N1 and we are set to come back in the next few weeks for the second vaccine.

I felt the side effect on the following day so as with MK, felt very tired and really wanted to rest. That's all and after couple of hours it was gone. For the girls, it seemed they did not feel the side effect because they were all well and playing the next day.

Bon, now at least we are done.

Just a little update...

2009-10-16T12:34:00.006+02:00

La grande's passport

It's been a while since I did not write updates of my visit to Phils. The reason I did not write because I am crazy playing games in Facebook everyday. What a life! I got my temporary residence card last August but it's only good for 3 months. I was scheduled to visit Cebu last September with la grande, we even produced her own passport (passport here is free anyway). Plan was changed rapidly. Actually, we have postponed all our trips this year, to Phils, to Poland and even to Barcelona. Instead, I chose to visit Cebu next year as soon as I obtain my new res. card and I will stay there for couple of months. I have a little project to do there that I really need to do it myself.

To Poland it would be this coming Christmas, but MK insisted that it would be very cold there that we can not go on tourism. I don't think twice to agree with him because he is right and I really like to visit some of the historical places there, especially MK's father and relatives live in Warsaw. He is also considering to go there by car, so we can cross Switzerland and perhaps Germany too. To be exact that is 24 hours of non-stop drive. It would be a pain in the ass. His counsin Krzyzstof and family was here in Grenoble last summer via car so we know how long to get there. I doubt, we have babies with us so it would take probably 30 hours to reach there. Ahh what a trip! Target visit is next year summer.

Anyway, MK knows how eager I am to go to Cebu, so he wants to treat me to Paris next month with la grande. Ah, he owed me a lunch date last year at the Eiffel tower restaurant (a reserve restaurant) and we missed to visit couple of castles nearby Paris or else Disneyland will do.

On vera. (we will see)

Château Fort

2009-10-14T11:36:00.011+02:00

the Keep behind us

A bit of history about the castle. It was besieged in 778 by Charlemagne (King of Franks), it became the residence of the Counts of Bigorre in the 11th and 12th centuries. In the 13th century, it passed into the possession of the Counts of Champagne before coming under the crown of France under Philippe le Bel. It was ceded to the English by the Treay of Brétigny in 1360, before returning to France at the start of the 15th century after two sieges. In the 17th century, the castle became a royal prison, and a state prison after the French Revolution, continuing in this role until the start of the 20th century when it became the Pyrenean Museum (Musée Pyrénéen) (1921) which it remains. It is the largest museum of popular arts and traditions in the Pyrennes (a range of mountains in soutwest Europe that form a natural border between France and Spain).

The castle has the Pyrenean museum inside as mentioned, displays of rooms, medieval costumes, furnitures, and other exhibitions of tools, but I never saw the medieval weapons displayed because it was pulled out during the Napoleon times some if not all the castles in France.

figurine cavalier: my souvenir and my collection

more photos in my Facebook.

Oh Lourdes

2009-10-13T18:27:00.014+02:00

the Basilica of the Immaculate Conception

at the grotto crowded with devotees

We just visited Lourdes three days ago for two days. It was crowded then with thousands of people than we've expected and also the reason why we planned to visit there on October because we thought only few tourists would be around. We were wrong. Anyway, we have a wonderful time in Lourdes especially at the grotto where we able to touch the rock with its flowing water from the mountain, me however, I pervently pray for good health for my little kids and hubby. C'est tout! Monday morning we were able to attend the mass at the grotto despite of the constant rain. Everyone got an umbrella except us because we forgot to check the weather forecast on the area and so never thought of bringing an umbrella. Anyhow, the two Italian women offered their umbrella for Blanche for the entire mass, we were standing then as crowds of the well and the sick people attending the mass in front of us. After the mass, the two Italian women insist to give their umbrella to us for Blanche, I tried to understand what they mean by their gestures and I nooded several times of their offer. They always insist for Bambina italian word for little girl. MK refused and so we were all wet until we went to the car couple of hundreds of meters from the church to rest and wait for the rain to stop so we can visit the Château Fort after.

While waiting for the rain to stop MK started to get water as we have some gallons of 5 liter bottle to fill in. Luckily, at noon time, the rain began to subside and we were having our lunch at the Vietnamese restaurant just next to the castle. After lunch, Blanche is already asleep and I have to get the pushcart back to the parking lot near the grotto. Well, enough time for me when I come back at the restaurant it would be 14h and the Castle will be opened as I thought. Lourdes is like a mini Cannes, it is slopy but more on mountains on both sides. While going back to the restaurant where MK and Blanche were waiting, I passed an old woman in her 70's or 80's in the street, walking very slowly and she called me if I could help her because she said her bag is heavy. I said sure, and when I put her bag on my shoulder I feel nothing, almot nothing is inside the bag. Anyway, I told her to put her left hand in my arms and then we walked towards the intersection. She talked a lot that she works in the handicap, her feet are broken that's why she walk very slow and she asked me where I come from. I said I live in LGM and I am from Phils in origin. Further, I told her that it's my second time in Lourdes. And she said, she is a native there. After walking of less than 50 meters, she told me the direction going to Château Fort that I should go to the left (I knew it), she goes to the right heading to the Church and before we said goodbye, she thanked me a lot for helping her and her last word before I go she said, I will pray for you. And I thank her too and told her to take care of herself.

I started to walk towards the restaurant and I felt very light inside, I felt I was re-born again. I turn my head to look at her behind me but I could not see her anymore as the streets are flooded with tourists/devotees.

At the restaurant, MK told me if I got lost in the street, I told him I didn't find the shortcut way plus I helped an old woman in the street. Anyway, we headed to the castle. That would be my next blog.

Le Palais des Papes

2009-09-10T15:37:00.013+02:00

miniature of the palace

I'm glad we made it to visit the Palais des Papes or Pope's Palace in Avignon yesterday. It's just an hour and a half drive from home and it's like a rule for me that whenever MK takes his vacation leave, I instantly think of a place to visit. In mind, I always like to visit castles, cathedrals and the likes. This is it.

façade of the palace

Palais des Papes was built in 1334. It is one of the largest and most important medieval gothic buildings in Europe. It was some time in the early 13th century where there was a chaos in Rome after election of the popes and that to avoid the chaos, the elected Pope moved to Avignon (Avi-nyon) since then Avignon became the residence of the Popes.

the Grand Chapel where the popes worshipped

The popes left Avignon in 1377, returning to Rome. Some years later, the building remained in the hands of the antipapal forces -- it was besieged from 1410 to 1411, but was returned to the authority of papal legates in 1433.

The building was seized and sacked by the revolutionary forces during the French Revolution and in 1791, it became the scene of a massacre of counter-revolutionaries, whose bodies were thrown into the Tour des Latrines in the palace.

Centuries passed, the palace was taken over by the Napoleonic French state for use as a military barracks and prison. Later the palace was further destroyed during the military occupation and the rest is history.

It became a national museum in 1906 and still in constant restoration ever since.

Next visit: Château Fort in Lourdes.

my perineal re-education

2009-09-07T21:00:00.009+02:00

result sheet

Perineal re-education is one of the numerous fields of practice in physical therapy. The muscles of the pelvic floor have various functions such as supporting the abdominal organs, controlling urinary and anal sphincters and enhancing sexual pleasure. The majority of these muscles are skeletal; this means that you have the capability of controlling them voluntarily and that they can be trained, just like the muscles of the arms and legs.

I have just finished my perineal re-education today. Here, after a woman has a baby, she is prescribed/advised to a program of 10 specialist perineal re-education sessions by their OB-Gyne. When I gave birth to la grande last March 2008, I was hesitant to take this session and so I never took it, until I met my friends who are mothers too, it was only then I realised how important this thing is for me and to other women who gave birth. And so after giving birth to la petite I decided not to miss this one.

I chose the same midwife who took care of me before when I had my pregnancy exercise sessions. She emphasized the importance of the perineal re-education is for the woman who gave birth so as not to encounter problems later. Actually this is the main goal to avoid problems in the future.

Well, it's all about exercises through va-jay-jay access ;). The exercise shapes up the woman's stretched-out birth canal. It also strengthens her pelvic floor for the next child, and helps keep her from leaking a little bit every time she sneezes. So each time I come for my session, my midwife will check through IE (internal examination) during my exercise and she tells me if I did it correctly or not.

Talk about vaginal exam. Actually, there are two methods of doing this, using the manual exam through fingers and other one using the probe like (i'm not sure the exact term of the instrument but i saw it) which is introduced to the vagina and connected to the monitor. I have chosen the manual method because the 'probe' like will vibrate to stimulate the muscles which for me it's uncomfortable.

Talking back of the exercises. I have 10 kinds of exercises to do it in 4 positions. And at home I don't do like fingering myself, I only do it in imagination and what really works is inside the vaginal area. Only the midwife will do the manual exam and decide if I did the right thing or not during the session. I wish to share the exercises here but I find it difficult to explain. It really requires an actual demo.

Now, that I'm done, I only require to do the exercises just once per month during the first day of my period, where unlike before I do it everyday.

And before I went out from the room this morning, I asked my midwife if this is applicable to women who gave birth by CS. She said yes, because during the 9 months period of pregnancy the muscles surrounding/below the uterus are exhausted enough and that they need to be restored just the same.

ça y'est! (it's done)

Health Record

2009-09-01T11:33:00.007+02:00

the booklet

This time let's talk about health. I just wanted to share this little thing but an important one.

When a child is born here, he/she will be given a Carnet de Santé (or health record) booklet. The 96 page booklet contains all the record examinations of the baby from the moment he/she was born until the age of 18 years old. It also contains some advices to parents for their babies about do's and don't's. Also found in the booklet are food consummation tables for the growing baby, vaccinations calendar and tables of vaccinations and other various tables.

So whenever we bring our babies to the clinic or hospital for check-up, we have to present this booklet. Doctor(s) will fill up his observations and prescriptions to the booklet and of course his signature. And so, whether we change our pediatre every month it doesn't matter because everything is written in the booklet.

On the other hand, la petite is delayed of one month for her next vaccination. Why, because when I cleaned the drawers I transferred these booklets to the other drawers which lead me to forget to read. So this thinks of me that I will put it in my blog so I will never forget.

Champollion

2009-08-31T17:01:00.011+02:00

Lycée de Champollion in Grenoble

the left side of the building, still part of the school

Do you still remember the person who deciphered the Egyptian hieroglyphs*? Hmm, let's talk a little bit of history. It was Jean-François Champollion who unlocked the ancient Egyptian writings during the 18th century. He speaks a dozen languages and considered as the father of Egyptology. On the other hand, it reminded me then of our national hero, but I don't like to write more about him because Wikipedia already has it.

So in his memory, some schools anywhere in France are named after him.

And if you ask me why I know this, it's because yesterday we were in Grenoble, and while walking around the town we spotted this building and it was MK who told me the whole story.

*hieroglyphs was a formal writing system used by the ancient Egyptians that contained a combination of logographic and alphabetic elements.

Les allocations familiales

2009-08-11T10:38:00.007+02:00

the girls just wanna have fun

One thing I like about the system here is when you have more than one child you will receive a monetary benefit from the government. We called it here CAF (caisse allocations familiales) or cash allocations for family and every family can receive this benefit regardless of their work status or income. Last week, we visited the office to register la petite as our second child and we've submitted all the needed requirements like, birth certificate, bank account no. etc. to avail this benefit. So every month I will receive an amount (below) and it goes directly to my bank account and one good thing is we will have this benefit until the children are of age 20.

the allocation benefits for family with:

2 children: 123.92 euro

3 children: 282.70 euro

4 children: 441.48 euro

additional child each: +158.78 euro

So now I see why French families or couples have more than one child, usually I see them having 2 or 3 children. Unlike in Poland where the tradition and fashion remains to be at least to have one child. Just like MK as an only child.

On the other hand, if I have to think of the allocation and convert it into pesos, that's a lot and in 5 years time I can build a house in our province, ;) Bon, I have to wait then.

21 days of cycling

2009-07-09T09:14:00.012+02:00

I'm talking about the biggest sporting event outside football's World Cup and the Olympic Games, Le Tour de France. It's a yearly bicycle race that usually takes place in July and traditionally ends in Paris. This year they began on July 4 in Monaco and will be passing/stopping to 33 towns during the 21 days of cycling. I'm glad that La Grande Motte is one of the towns of their stop. Last Monday July 6 I took some pictures of the cyclist from their almost 6 hour race from Marseille to La Grande Motte stage.

passing inside La Grande Motte

I'd intend to have ourselves positioned at the finished line so we could see it live who wins for this stage but crowd prevented us.

i took a little video of the last part of the race

Cannes

2009-06-29T11:36:00.012+02:00

the private beaches of Cannes

Palais des Congres where the International Film Festival is held

When we think of Cannes, it is most likely that we think of the Film Festival. Yes it is held each May, the festival began in 1946, although it was created in 1930 to counter Mussolini's fascists' propaganda film festival in Venice.

They say that Cannes has always been the envy of lords and prince because of its beautiful landscape, the mountains and the seas. Last week when we hit the town we were able to explore some of its touristic places like the beautiful beaches, boutiques selling the most luxirous brands, casinos, nightclubs, restaurants and expensive hotels line the street. Ironically, we didn't go there for shopping, (but i wished someday when I win the lottery... joke) or didn't go there for gambling nor barhopping. We just passed all these places to see it for ourselves.

The town is very crowded with tourists and one thing I or we should pay attention is by the time crossing the streets. Imagine, even if it's pedestrian lanes most of the time the cars don't stop, it seemed like they don't care people wanted to cross the street. I've been to some places here but only in Cannes where I found this manner. I jokingly told MK it's nice to be here for I felt like I'm home where cars are priority to pass not the people.

Hmm, so much about the traffic and pedestrians. On the other hand, our 3 day stay in Cannes is not enough to explore and visit some other interesting places to see like the two islets just off the coast named Ile Saint Honorat and Ile Saint Marguerite. The Nautilus, a glass bottom boat, departs every hour in the summer and provides a glimpse of the creatures that live in the waters around Cannes and others. But at least, we were able to dine in at the Thai restaurant and heavenly tasted its spicy foods. Yum!

I have my showbiz side and I really wish to go back in Cannes, hopefully during the film festival next year or next.

Marineland

2009-06-29T10:39:00.012+02:00

after watching the seal's show

the whale flashes the water to the nearby audiences

I never thought that we would push through our plan to Cannes and Nice's trip because of MK's health. It happened. Well, first by the power of Lourdes' water that he drank and his medication he was well enough to drive the 3 of us for long hours to Cannes and Nice last week. Actually, I have my paperworks authenticated in Nice and after having them done we headed to Marineland which is located in between Cannes and Nice.

Marineland has a lot to see. Shows of seals, sea lions, dolphins and killer whales including huge aquariums of sharks and deadly piranhas and of course the penguins. We spent all the afternoon there enjoying watching the shows and exploring the various sea creatures which are unknown to me. I have attached few videos and as for the rest which are bulky I might put them in my flicker account.

Entrance fee: 38 euro/person but it's really worth to see them.

At the seaquarium

2009-06-19T14:28:00.000+02:00

MK and la grande at the sea lion's area

At the shark's area

La grande enjoying her step to the aquarium frame

This fish drew my attention because of its color and shape. I forgot the name of this fish but it reads this one is poisonous

Part of our list to do on a 2 week vacation for MK is to visit this seaquarium. Yesterday, we went to the neighboring seaquarium just a few kilometers from home. It's me who drive and the first time for me driving in an open highway because MK got injured on his right knee. In fact, our little touristic plan trip to Cannes and Nice this week was cancelled. Hope it will be happened next week and MK's knee be right fine. Anyway, it was a deal that yesterday was the perfect time to go to seaquarium leaving la petite to MK's mom and aunt's care (they just left to Grenoble today) and if I don't drive we can not go there of course. So I did.

There are so many interesting facts to read about the various kinds of sea creatures, but la grande kept walking around, crying, sleepy etc. so it ended up that we did not finish exploring the whole area. Ah next time, when the kids are grown up... next year or next, next...

Karting

2009-06-14T16:03:00.000+02:00

MK waving

Me turning hard

MK in yellow shirt.

There was a company outing last saturday where MK works. They go karting. MK invited me to join the event and so I took the chance while his mother and aunte are here taking care of the girls. I joined. This is our first karting experience. Me, on the other hand, I bumped on the side rail when I made a turn, luckily there were some used tires on it so it did not hurt me. After the first lap, everything went smooth for me so as with MK.

I share a little video that I made. My hands were shaking when I took this so it's a little bit shaky ;) pardon me!

Postage stamp collection

2009-06-12T14:57:00.000+02:00

some of the stamps collection

While I was cleaning the cabinet in our living room I saw a booklet of stamps hidden under the clutter of books and I thought I'm going to post this here. It was MK who collected these stamps before each time he goes abroad for work and I thought I would like to continue to do so. It's nice to see stamps from different countries and it would be very nice if I can complete them from all countries. It would be a great accomplishment.

C'est pas possible!

So I'm calling the people from different parts of the world, postage stamp collector or not who likes to share their stamps and in return I will do the same to you.

Bonne fête des mères

2009-06-07T17:51:00.000+02:00

It's Mother's day today in France and I've missed to greet everyone last month so I'm greeting now Happy Mother's day to my dear friends and readers who are mothers of course.

Well, I prefered to rest today than going out somewhere. MK took the babies out this afternoon on promenade while I slept a lot.

Motherhood is great especially you see, feel, touch and love your child(ren) every day.

So, Bonne fête des mères à tous!

Foods I've missed

2009-06-04T13:38:00.000+02:00

It should be this month (June) as I've planned to spend a month of vacation or two in Cebu with Blanche and will be eating some of the foods below, but since I have not yet obtained my new residence card the trip is postpone later this year.

Various foods I would like to eat:

1. Shomai sa Tisa with their spicy sauce at Larshan;

2. Hot and Crispy Chicken at Jollibee; here, once a week I have my KFC's hot and crispy but nothing compared to the taste of the one I like much from Jolibee;

3. Crispy ginabot (pig's intestine) which I used to cook while I was at home. I could not find on sale at the store here these intestinal parts of pigs/chickens;

4. Lucky Me hot and spicy canton; this is one of my lists to bring when I come back here;

5. Shawarma with the hot sauce at SM mall or Ayala mall; this is equivalent to Ceasar's Salad in KFC. When I was at work before, I would find time to drop any of these malls just to eat this Shawarma;

6. Balot pinoy in the street; provided there is vinegar and red pepper mix with onions as well;

7. Tempura in the street; this one is easy to find, everyday morning or afternoon someone will pass by near home;

You see everything in my list is in spicy. I've missed them a lot. And by the way, French in general don't like spicy foods so as with their restaurants. So this adds up why I want to eat the above-mentioned foods.

For any proper dishes anything is fine for me as long as they are serve hot. Hmmm. I can't wait to be there soon...

Birth control: Which one?

2009-06-02T17:12:00.000+02:00

After giving birth to la petite a month ago we decided (particularly me) to go into birth control. You see before we really relied on that withdrawal method because me, on the other hand, I was hesitant of the BC pills, it's side effects etc. so in the end we did not use any kind of protection for birth until it happened. It's already happened. But did you know that I was considering of having la petite for abortion before? God saved her for I changed my mind. In France, abortion is very much legal. In fact, I've asked my gyne about the whole procedure--taking the pills for abortion plus emptying your uterus by their instruments. It is a painless process as what my gyne said. Nothing to fear.

Yes, I fear not about the procedure. It's nothing compared to giving birth. But I fear God and the karma. So this time, I'm into BC: pills, but still I am in doubt and considered it as risky. I have phobia now. You know it's not so easy to take care of two little babies at the same time.

I love my girls dearly so 2 children are enough for the moment. I know mothers out there will share their opinions...

Me vs. time

2009-06-02T09:41:00.000+02:00

Me and my girls

It's been a month or two since the last time I wrote. I don't have much time and my time is occupied taking care of the babies. Hmm, how can I write? Yes, I can if I have to, but I am lazy and tired enough to write and instead I chose to rest or sleep. (But I do keep my pc open for YMs only and yes I keep reading all the blogs I've been following). You see I sleep very late at night around 23h to 00h and la petite wakes me up 2 times in the night for her milk. I won't bother MK to do so because he gives only half of the bottle and then he sleeps after than that. Well except on Friday and Saturday nights for his duties. Now, I see a little change on la petite because since yesterday she wakes up one time in the night. Let's say if her last biberon is around at 19h to 22h she wakes up around 4h or 5h. This gives us (particularly me) more time to sleep and less tiring.

It's all a matter of time management.

Now they are both sleeping and this time I chose not to sleep maybe later in the afternoon. Well also because I want to write...

Eczema everywhere

2009-06-02T09:03:00.000+02:00

Eczema on her arms and feet

Oh my poor Blanche is fighting this eczema. It's been weeks when I saw her keep itching endlessly on her arms, hands and feet. I don't know how this all started because she was on vacation with her Lola in Grenoble for a week and when she returned home I spotted this on her skin. I put some cream on it like the one I used to put with her before. It healed for awhile but then she keep itching on it so it comes back again. Even on bed time I gave her 3 pacifier, one on her mouth and 1 pacifier for each hand so she's busy and no more time to itch, but then she still scratching on her skin strong enough until it get wounded. So we went last Saturday to the medics and only to find out it is Eczema. Now she got another brand of cream plus a liquid oral medication. Hope to get rid of this eczema soon.

No more flawless skin for now...

On breast pain

2009-04-16T11:44:00.000+02:00

one week old GH

I've been wanting to breastfeed la petite since months ago for single reason that it's no hassle to do than preparing the biberon especially at night. With breastfeeding you can feed the baby easily whenever she's hungry or whenever she cries or so. Unfortunately, after hours of giving birth to la petite I tried to breastfeed her but it seems milk is out of stock. It's the same experience I have with la grande last year and it ended up with my breasts swelling and wounded.

I was told by the midwife that if ever I choose to breastfeed, don't ever give biberon on her first drink. I tried everything but I failed so now after a week of giving birth the result is the same, my breasts are swelling, tender and heavy. I'm on pain. I think the milk has just arrived but it's too late. I have asked my gyne about this and she prescribed me a medicine to stop the milk production.

I was convinced last year that I don't have milk on the first day because I had hemorrhage and in effect no liquid or milk in the first couple of days. Oh well, I'm not so lucky about breastfeeding but I hope I still have this great bonding in the future with my girls.

Baby Gentiane is here

2009-04-11T18:30:00.000+02:00

at the delivery room resting for 2 hours after giving birth

at the lobby, MK and our girls

It was the same hour and same day when I started feeling contraction in my tummy with la grande. Last tuesday midnight I woke up from a light pain, it's very light pain and I thought this is it. I waited in the morning, noon and afternoon until I have the blood discharge. I called MK but then I have to wait until the contraction becomes very unbearable and comes in every 10 minutes. MK arrives quickly from work around 15h and we proceeded to the hospital. I know it's not the time yet to go there because I know the pain is just started and I can still bear it. Indeed, after the IE exam and the computerized contraction monitoring done I am far from giving birth on that day--tuesday. They leave me the choice to stay or to come back and I said I'd rather come back in the night time.

Going home, and in time of MK's mom arrived on tuesday night to take care of la grande. So on wednesday morning at 4h I told MK that it's time to go to hospital as I could not bear the pain anymore as it comes in every 6 minutes. Then I had my peridurale at 7h and it took me one hour and a half to push the baby out. I called this painless delivery as I could not feel any single pain, I was totally dependent of my ob-gyne or the nurse to tell me it's time to push. Unlike before with la grande, I have the peridurale expired the time I started the delivery so I could anticipated it. Anyway, I'm still thankful as everything is safe for me and the baby.

Finally, I gave birth normally to Gentiane, Hélène at 10:45h, wednesday. She's 3.4 kilos and 50 cm.

Now we are at home, a little bit crowded ;)

First time watching the orchestra

2009-03-22T10:34:00.000+01:00

the performers

the orchestra

sleepy me--10 min break before proceeding the 2nd show

dinner after and the dessert made me alive then

MK has been kept telling me before that he wants to watch the orchestra for a change rather than watching the movie at the cinema. Indeed he bought tickets last week and asked her mom to be here to take care la grande. On the otherhand, it was my first experience watching the show. It was great indeed hearing all the instrumental sounds of violins, trumpets, piano, etc. It really relaxes the mind and bring ourselves to a different world of music, but unfortunately it made me so sleepy inside but I manage not to sleep by focusing my eyes to the maestro's action.

Well, MK likes it a lot, it was fun, but for me I prefer to watch a real opera next time.

Meeting with the anesthesiologist

2009-03-22T09:41:00.000+01:00

It was last Wednesday when I met the anesthesiologist for my epidural anesthesia. I was delayed for a week of taking a RdV with him but it's ok. Actually, it was the midwife who reminded me to meet the anesthesiologist a month before giving birth. If I had not taken the RdV, then there will be no epidural anesthesia at all. Good thing I was reminded.

Good thing also because in general, hospitalizations here is 70% funded by the government except for maternity hospitalization where it is 100% free even at the early months of pregnancy, all laboratory exams (monthly blood analyses, ultrasounds etc.), medicines too, to midwife and to my ob-gyne check-ups are free. I'll just present my health card and that's it. So I have less worry though about hospitalization but even then I'm still praying to have a safe and normal delivery.

Feeling ready on the big-D

2009-03-22T09:13:00.000+01:00

at med. lab last week

after my exercise at my midwife's clinic on the same day

I have finished my sessions with my midwife week(s) ago and I was reminded again on what to do during the contraction (contraction is the term used here when you have a pain). There are some ways to calm down the contraction, by way of the balloon exercise, have yourself in the bathtub for some minutes and/or massaging the back--the spinal column and downwards. This applies only to early contraction but if contraction persists every 10 minutes in one hour or lost of waterbag then it's time to go to the hospital immediately. Other common things discussed are; how to push during the labor, how to breathe and exhale properly and how to block the air after breathing etc. I have experienced this before with la grande so I still have it in my mind, and I hope it will work out fine for la petite too this second time around.

Finally but not yet

2009-03-16T10:57:00.000+01:00

At the Palais des Congres House and Lot expositions

MK measuring the land area of all the available units

With MK's mom assisting

30 houses will soon be built on this ground

Yesterday we went to Montpellier Palais des Congres (sort of social hall for some events) for the house and lot construction exposition. Dozens of house developers, constructors and realtor showing their offers. We have finally found one and after taking all the details of the land and price we head up to this place in the afternoon time.

The name of the place is Fabrègues (as Fabreg). We all like this place because it is situated in a slope and no doubt of possible flood in the future plus it's not far in Montpellier city and to MK's work as well. We've finally decided to take one lot here, so MK will be meeting the agent tonight for further clarification. I hope the one we chose is still vacant.

Blanche B-day

2009-03-16T10:20:00.000+01:00

Blanche trying to catch the candle...

her birthday cake from her Lola

Blanche turned 1 year old last March 12. Her ever first attempt to blow the candle was failed, but instead she grabbed it with her hand and made her cry. That was a bit fun. Well, we celebrated it at home just the four of us. I wish to invite my closest friend Gwen but she was still in Cebu. But I would be more reluctant to invite some friends with their babies too when we move to a new house later this year or early next year.

Anyway, now la grande can speak clearly the word "mama" and she's always repeating it until it sounds like mamam. She even call her papa as mama, MK insist her to speak papa but she knows only the word mama at the moment. She can almost walk independently...soon she will be on her own walking around the house.

12 month check-up

2009-03-11T09:26:00.000+01:00

la Grande at the playing area in the clinic

after the clinic, looking around the Toy House, MKs eyeing this truck for Blanche. oh la la!

I could not think of the best title for this blog so I borrowed Bchai's title from her blog 6 month check-up. ;)

We have la grande at her Pédiatre's clinic yesterday for her check up and fourth vaccination. Everything's well except she cried a lot for she received one shot each on her butt. I also asked the Dr. about la grande's not drinking her milk since two months ago and I told her that for breakfast she only eats yogurt or bottled cheese, or any food that is not via babyron. Well the Pédiatre said, the yogurt and the cheese have the same nutrients equivalent to milk so no problem. But she recommended to try another milk if we like. Actually, we did it couple of times, changing the brand of milk and still la grande hates drinking milk by babyron. She always prefers to eat with the spoon. She drinks milk provided it is in the spoon but doing so creates a lot of mess everywhere so instead I give yogurt and cheese.

Now, la grande is 9.8 kilos and 76 cm.

Next visit in 3 months, additional vaccine if we push through our trip to Cebu in June or July.

Rendez-vous

2009-03-09T09:18:00.000+01:00

Lately, I've been tied up with all rendez-vous (appointment) or in short RdV that I have from pregnancy related issues, to my dentist, to house and lot we are searching and to my daily routine sleeping habit.

Good thing, I have only one session to go with my midwife tomorrow and everything is ready for me then. Other than myself, we have RdV for Blanche tomorrow for her 4th vaccination and later in the noon time I have my RdV with my ob-gyne and in the afternoon to my midwife. MK has to take a day off to help me this thing.

By the way, in FR it is always necessary to take Rdv in advance particularly to clinics and other business related issues. You just can't go directly to the clinic without RdV, because usually the doctor will tell you that today she/he got a number of patients, or the schedule is full. Well except in emergency cases where you can go directly to the hospitals. And mind you, RdV is a RdV, if you failed to come that day without warning the doctor or the secretary you have to pay the same consultation price. And it is always advantage because you don't wait that much, you come there on the scheduled time or maybe late in couple of minutes then you are served.

Chosing the baby's name

2009-02-19T16:54:00.000+01:00

Book of prénoms (or first name)

I'll be approaching on my 8 months of pregnancy, the time we have to choose a name of our baby. So after our short promenade with la grande earlier this noon, I thought I would look this book in the cabinet so I can take a search while I'm not sleepy. Last time, I made a list of all if not some of my neighbour's names in Cebu, including officemates and relatives. It was funny because whenever MK had a name to suggest it was on our list and so we started to find one from this book which MK's mom gave to us last Christmas 2007.

Here, it is compulsory to have two names, the second name will serves as a middle name (not my family name instead). Further, the second name will be used only on for records like in the birth certificate and other legal documents purposes and even in school in the future and at work, la grande will use only one name. We named her Blanche Bénita. Blanche from a French feminine colour of white and Bénita from my late mother.

So this time, I will read more of the book and hope to find something that sounds unique as well. I have one name that I liked from a TV newscaster named Laurence but we will see. Of course, MK must agree too.

Gone with the wind

2009-02-17T09:14:00.000+01:00

I can't begin to tell you where I've been dwelling in the past weeks. Perhaps you're thinking of me that I gave birth already because I did not make any post. No not yet. Still have 2 months to go. Actually, I can't seem to move my butt and write. I was just here in the house most of the time sleeping taking advantage when Blanche is sleeping too. This is me and myself when all the laziness in the world strikes me.

Also, i'm tired after my daily chores plus my weekly appointment of my midwife (or nurse). You know I have 8 sessions to attend with my midwife throughout the last trimester of pregnancy. Here, pregnant women are encouraged to be involved in this session. It's all about pregnancy topics, giving birth, exercise, foods, breastfeeding, new born babies, everything related to pregnancy and after. I missed some sessions last year while I was pregnant with Blanche and so I take this chance now. I'd even missed my examine 2 months after giving birth. Aside from the OB-gyne check up after giving birth, the midwife will examine too in detail about the uterus inside using their gadgets, etc. if it's correctly put back in place or something. I'm curious about this. We called it perinnal exam, but I'm not sure if we have equivalent for this in Cebu.

I didn't realize that much at 7 months pregnant, it's really tiring, exhausting and especially difficult to lift up oneself from bed. Hmmm, I would be over acting as if this is my first time.

Never mind. I'm back. ;)

We made it to Lourdes

2009-01-28T09:28:00.000+01:00

the basilica of the Immaculate Conception

just attended the mass

me and MK's mom at the Grotto

Time flies fast and I couldn't wait another month to go to Lourdes with my condition and so I'm pushing MK to take leaves from work and coincidentally, his work intervention abroad is over too for the moment. So, last saturday morning we drove up for almost 6 hours drive to Lourdes including the stopover for our lunch. Days before we are already aware of the bad weather conditions in the region that we are about to visit. Indeed, on the road we experienced level 3 of violent winds and constant rain. Warnings and precautions published in the highway's screens. The car shook each time the wind blows violently. I know, we chose the wrong date to visit but changing the plan was not an option. Even then, we arrived safe and sound. And just after putting all our things in the hotel we hurriedly went out to look the church and then directly went to the Grotto. I'm getting goosebumps at the Grotto's ground and I couldn't describe the feeling. I felt my conscience is clear and clear again.

Finally, we visited the church that I longed to visit since years. On sunday morning we were able to attend the mass in the basilica of the Immaculate Conception, burned our candles, touched the rock of the Grotto and prayed to the Virgin Mary.

Crêpe

2009-01-21T10:00:00.000+01:00

ingredients of making a Crêpe

Crêpes are very popular here in FR and I thought I would like to share this simple food that is not so hassle to prepare. MK and I usually take our dinner around 20h, that's an hour after he arrives from work. So, whenever I am lazy, out of food stock, or any reasons I can think of, I would instantly consider making des crêpes as for our dinner at least once in two weeks. It's easy to prepare and it will be ready in just couple of minutes, oh well after you finish mixing all the ingredients.

ingredients: for 2 persons
250 g flour
1/2 liter milk
2 eggs
1 spoon of sugar, or honey will do
a little salt
50 g butter

Simply mix everything in a bowl, stir until it is smooth and add a little water or rhum if one's like. Also melt the butter first then add it in the bowl. Then fry it in a pan. It's ready...

crêpe with cholate butter for me

or I put smoke fish on it

MK prefers his crêpes with ham

;)

What if

2009-01-19T10:31:00.000+01:00

Lately, I couldn't think of anything or something new to write until I dreamed this morning. I was asked by someone a question of what if I was not here in FR today and I don't remember who it was. Even then, in my subconscious I answered it, well first thing I would still be at work reporting whole day and meeting my officemate Joan in the same room, sharing some jokes, showbiz thing and other daily news; and I would still receive regular feedbacks from clients bad or good and then feel worried about the monthly incentive cash. In my dream, I mentioned also I would be hearing some troubles with my family--getting used to their troubles, I anticipated it, but all the same I hated it.

As I continued this dream with so many what if's question, I heard la grande cries and looking her pacifier somewhere hidden under her body and so I gave it to her and as I peep the clock, it's almost 6h. I got one hour to rise up and prepare our breakfast.

And then I laid back on the bed but can't sleep and instead I think of my dream. It was a good question. Hmm, if I'm not here in FR, I would be wandering around, hanging out with girlfriends --anywhere. But the interesting question was what if I didn't get married yet. I wouldn't see my little daughter now and perhaps I remain to be in crisis in all aspects...

No regrets.

Pacifier or not

2009-01-13T09:29:00.000+01:00

I've been wanting to write this little story last month but I always forgot to do it. Oh it's all about the pacifier of la grande. Since she started using this thing in her early months, she can't get this out in her little mind. Whenever she is sleepy, alone in her bed, idle or after playing she cries and will be looking for her pacifier.

In fact, we had a little argument with MK way back after Christmas 08. I was giving an afternoon snack for la grande and it's always this process to feed her before we drove up for more than 3 hours drive back home. MK on the other hand prepared all our things back to the car. When la grande finished her meal, we went down from his mom's apartment and after the bisou bisou thing with her mom it was only then I realized that the pacifier is on the table beside the biberon. I told MK that I forgot this thing and I have to take it back or he will take it himself upstairs because I don't have any extra pacifier in the bag. I left them at home. However, MK refused and he said la grande will sleep in the car on the way home.

Let's see.

So we left around 17h and just half an hour driving la grande started to cry. It was a tiring day for me and I intended to sleep in the car for long, but since she kept on crying and so I have to sit at the back with her so she can see me and I tried to calm her. She stopped then cried again. It didn't work out at all. Still she wants her little thing to suck. I knew she's so sleepy that time as she used to sleep after each meal. We had stopped the car three times to carry la grande outside for a while and even asked few stores we've passed if they have pacifier but then they don't have one. Going to the supermarket was far from our route and would take additional time. Indeed, we arrived home with la grande's mouth wide open.

It was a terrible trip for us that time that I'd never spoke to MK the whole night, but everything's went fine the day after. It's a lesson for us not to forget this simple but very impotant thing for her...

The pacifier, bow.

And there she loves it

2009-01-09T22:03:00.000+01:00

bathing la grande

This photo was taken in Grenoble where we forgot to bring her portable plastic bath tub and so instead we used this adult tub. I think la grande loves to be in the water or play with it. Since her early weeks from birth she never cries when I bathe her and while I do the shampoo thing and rubbing her body with soap. I must tell you I always do this with singing before. Any song will do for her. Now that she's growing in months I don't sing anymore. I'll just let her play with her plastic toys floating around or she splashes the water with her hands. I'd even like to see her holding the turtle toy deep in the water and so bubbles come up. It's nice. Hmm, I can't wait till summer so I can let her play for more couple of minutes in the water. Not at the moment because the centralise exhaust fans in our apartment add up to the coolness of the temperature.

Bon, I don't have a single problem bathing the baby and one day when she's a year older or so I will join her in the big tub. Playing!

Yes it's me--tagged!

2009-01-09T20:34:00.000+01:00

bed time soon...

I just read Joan's blog and me too I've been not writing for a week. Forgive me folks. Actually, I have a little problem with my left ear and I had visited the doctor already 3 times since December and the 4th time was last Friday, finally it was the ENT specialist. Here, you cannot go directly to the specialist unless you have the referral from your MD. Well, or unless if you risk to pay from your own pocket it's ok. But considering the 70 percent funded by the government so we have to follow the procedures. I have an ear infection in my left ear and I have this problem started in late 2004 and if I remember it was when me and my friends had a night swimming in the pool way back and each year or so it will strike me back. Oh it was so annoying and I felt so uncomfortable in everything I do because my left ear is totally blocked (it swelled a lot inside) and I couldn't hear properly. I'm still on meds and I'm set to visit again the specialist this monday. It's been a week now since my ENT visit and I have my normal hearing once again.

I am such a hard-headed person as the doctor kept telling me not to scratch my ear with fingers nor use cotton buds. I couldn't help it, so itchy and so I did and it keeps coming back and back. With the ENT examination he told me the same and this time I followed it or else I will experience again the speculum (instrument use to check inside the nose).

Miracle snow

2009-01-09T20:05:00.000+01:00

neighbourhood

early morning snow

I watched last night's weather forcast and then it was said that it will be snowing in the southern part of the country and so I asked MK in advance to take pictures of us if ever the forcast is correct. Indeed it was true and this morning I took la grande outside for just 2 minutes posing. It's not a big deal though but here it's very seldom to experience a snow falling and this is why I called it miracle snow. This usually happens in January only, maybe once or twice and that's it. And it's like less than 5 cm thick. Oh well at least I have a remembrance for this day, for once a year.

My monthly exam

2008-12-31T09:40:00.000+01:00

at med. lab. this morning

We woke up early today at around 6h purposely for my monthly blood analyses examination. It's raining here since yesterday and so I asked MK to drop us at the Laboratoire d'Analyse nearby and back home before he went to work. No one is around on the waiting queue so I was the first then. Here, pregnant women will undergo monthly examinations of blood and urine from the second month up to the eight months of her pregnancy and lastly a month after giving birth. So it's my second pregnancy and I am sort of fed up with this injection thing every month. Among the blood tests include toxoplasma (Toxoplasmosis is an infection you can get from a microscopic parasite called Toxoplasma gondii. You can also get the parasite in other ways, such as eating unwashed contaminated produce, drinking contaminated water, or handling contaminated soil, cat litter, or meat and then touching your mouth, nose, or eyes. Although the infection is generally a mild, symptomless illness for people with healthy immune systems, it's risky to get during pregnancy because the parasite can sometimes infect the placenta and your baby.) I agree with this because we have a cat in the house.

Before, I kept wondering why there's always blood exam each month while I compared it in Cebu, if I remembered it right, it is only taken once during the first month of pregnancy or two. But knowing the methods, monitoring and regular exams here make me feel more safer and for the coming baby.

Bon, c'est tout pour le moment!

It's a girl again...

2008-12-29T15:09:00.000+01:00

We are expecting our second child this April 2009 and as part of the process here I have to undergo 3 ultrasounds to be taken each per trimester throughout pregnancy. I had my 2nd pregnancy ultrasound done last Monday before we headed to our Christmas vacation in Grenoble. It was a little funny because months before, MK and I agreed not to know the gender until birth. Actually, I kept saying to him it's a girl again and MK preferred it as a surprise because I know deep inside of him he really wants a boy, but as the days approached to my scheduled ultrasound I told him there's no point of surprising it. I told him I'm too lazy of calling la petite or le petit or the little one inside whenever we describe her. Well, in truth I'm not into surprises, I mean I don't like it, maybe I'm a little kinda weird ;) Btw, Blanche is now called la grande.

And so, when the doctor said everything is doing fine inside and he asked us if we want to know the gender, I hurriedly said yes. He said, C'est une fille or it's a girl. Hmm, we will wait for couple of years to make a boy, we'll have to study first how to do it ;)

Merry Christmas everyone

2008-12-29T14:19:00.001+01:00

Blanche is little busy checking her gift

Christmas Day at the park somewhere in Grenoble

I've been away for a week at home and so as with my blogging thing. Actually, we've planned to leave home on Tuesday to spend the Christmas day at MK's mom, so I thought I still have a night to write something, but things finished early afternoon on Monday so we decided to leave home at 18h and I missed the time to write and greet everyone a happy holidays. Anyway it's better late than never..

Merry Xmas to all! Wish you had a great time with your family. Cheers!!!

Winter in La Grande Motte

2008-12-20T11:21:00.001+01:00

I watch late news every night particularly the weather forecast for the week and I thought it would be a beautiful saturday today to go out early in the morning near the beach to inhale the fresh air or take a look or listen to the waves and perhaps catch the sunrise. So after breakfast, while MK continues his programming works in his pc, me I prefer to go out for half an hour with Blanche and so I put additional cloths to her and then we go out. It takes only 50 meters from our apartment then we will have the beach in our very own eyes. So quiet on winter times. As I recall last summer population here rised up to 10 times than usual for lots of people coming from the north or even some Brits and other europeans will spend their vacation here. La Grande Motte was built 40 years ago designed for touristic spot. So it is always a problem to find a parking place for the car on summer and the beach is full of crowd. Disco bars and the likes are in the same crowd. Just one good thing to consider living here is that we don't use to have snow here or maybe once in a blue moon. This time, some parts of the country are in trouble with the snow and avalanche like in Nice. Since it's winter, now...

stores and restaurants are all closed except in the town center

neighbourhood

all shells are washed out from Mediterranean Sea

this used to be a volleyball ground on summer

Tartiflette

2008-12-19T18:52:00.000+01:00

MK has extended his work for three days in Great Britain and when he called me this morning he said he's already in Charles de Gaulle Airport in Paris and as usual he always asked me if there's anything for lunch ready when he arrives. I thought I have kilos of potatoes stock in the drawer and so I certainly said yes. I've got two hours to prepare the food before MK arrives so I have the luxury of time to think of what food to prepare by means of potatoes. Then finally I considered of making a Tartiflette and I thought I would share it here because it's so simple and not so much ingredients required--with only potatoes, ground pork, chopped onions and fromage tranché or sliced cheese. That's it! Since there are varieties of cheeses here some of them are already sold in pack for a particular menu.

The process is so simple: Boil the sliced potatoes by your choice of shape and drain them after, and in a pan, fry the onions and the ground pork along with the drained potatoes for couple of minutes then put them together in an oven baking pan. Finally add the cheese and bake them for 20 to 30 minutes under 200°C. It's ready!

For the oven...

After

So, bon appétit!

Having fun with my friends

2008-12-15T10:19:00.001+01:00

It was rainy day yesterday and I was hesitant if I would come and join the little gatherings at Gwen's house (my Pinay friend). I know how much effort she put on this appointment. She'd even sent invitation cards to all Pinays and their husbands to join this day. Well, MK is not around to help me carrying Blanche in case she cries, but I thought if I will not come there, I will surely miss the crowd and won't see the new faces in case there are new comers from the group and most importantly I could not hand over my little Christmas present to my dear family in Cebu for Gwen and her husband is leaving this week for a 3 month vacation in Cebu. If it's me saying, lucky for Gwen she's going to escape the winter season here. Actually no, she and her husband will do this vacation each year, because in winter time there's not so much customers or clients in their business.

Then I went there with Blanche. We had a nice gathering, it was fun. And it's a good thing because each time I meet the group I will get a tip about the baby and other important things related to the country. In short, chika here and there. One tip about the baby, on winter the baby's face usually turn red when she/he exposes outside because of the cold air/winds and making their faces' skin dry. With this, they said to put a cream on baby's face to get rid of it.

^
mga kababayan

Blanche at ease in the crowd.

and then I carried her or else she continue crying

Home alone series

2008-12-11T11:37:00.000+01:00

It's another week for me and Blanche that I used to call home alone because MK has left yesterday morning for his monthly work intervention to Great Britain for 7 straight days including the weekend. Likewise his mom left back to her home in Grenoble. Though, before she left home she gave me something to experiment as she says: oh some powder packs and ingredients to make a cake, mostly she does some tart with thin-sliced apples or pears, and she wants me to do the same. She even bought me a new multi-purpose blender and a cake molder for it. Hah, she read my mind that I'm beginning to show interest of baking so she gave this stuff to me.

I've always loved to cook something new before not cake, I mean dishes but it turned out that after serving them on the table MK will not like it, he doesn't even taste it. As I used to do in cebu, I put some spicy things and cook them. MK likes the contrary. He prefers not to put any onions, garlic etc. in any dishes that I do and he wants half-cook foods, so in the end it's only me who love and like my cooking thing, only me who eat it until such time that I gave up cooking and my experimenting process died as well.

But, whenever I miss the foods in cebu, like Humba, Inun-unan, etc I cook them just for me and I'll cook pasta for MK himself. I told him a thousand times that I love to cook and he in return he always give me the recipes from the restaurant he goes to eat everyday for lunch. And I thought, ah never mind this thing and I said and asked to him: why don't you learn cooking yourself as much as you've learned the mechanical thing on your cars? Then he said ah I never forced you to cook something complicated for me, one baguette and hotdogs or sliced ham for dinner is fine for me. I agree too, after all he's not so complicated and demanding about foods.

I felt something now... J'ai faim!

Panettone al cioccolato for a different taste of dessert

2008-12-07T17:16:00.000+01:00

MK's mom will spare more than 3 hours drive from her home just to visit us once a month or so, or it's either we visit her in Grenoble, that is only if MK is off from work for a week but most of the time his mom does the visits. And everytime she comes home she always brings something new particularly about desserts. We had a very nice lunch today and as usual when her mom prepares the meal it would be in Polish tradition. I will mention it here to make this letter just a little bit longer. It's boiled chopped potatoes added with a little salt and added some butter after draining them plus oven-cooked chicken. That's it. So simple and quick. I'd even do this often times for our dinner with MK plus fruits for our desserts, my favorite bananas and MK's grapes or apples or coned ice cream it will do fine for us. Since her mom is here today, here comes our dessert...

My first taste of Pasticceria Fraccaro products...

their website is http://www.fraccarodolciaria.it/

Go, grow, glow baby...

2008-12-06T15:55:00.000+01:00

As I clean the cabinet where I put Blanche's cloths I've noticed that couple of them seemed to be small for her anymore and to make it sure I've tried to fit her one more time but then they are really tight already. Baby grows fast as I see and in the next weeks perhaps we'll buy another set of cloths for her. In the meantime, I can put the old cloths hidden in the stockroom while waiting for the next baby to come, so soon though, well just couple of months to go.

These past few days I've happened to take few pictures of Blanche with her different moods.

sleepy Blanche with MK each time on promenade...

she is content to have a magazine to tear into pieces by pieces later...

she cries after each meal, actually she's asking for more water...

or she is happy without toys on her table provided she's with me in the kitchen.

Search goes on...

2008-11-29T22:35:00.000+01:00

I was a bit tired these past few days of taking care of our little baby and each time I want to think of writing something, the courage alludes me. Never mind then, today we’ve found ourselves an opportunity to go around to some neighbouring towns and look for vacant lot for sale that is advertised in the daily newspapers. We’ve found two different places for sale but the problem is--it’s so closed on the road and on the train way which is too noisy to hear the speeding cars and the fast trains passing by. The other one that is for sale is situated in the flooded zone, which is a nightmare to live then.

Well, again I’m back on my net surfing for this issue. Though, we have seen so many proposals and offers of the real estate agencies but they costs so high which is really beyond our budget. Also we are looking for the closest towns to live so it would be not too far where MK works. At times I like to find a lot/land before this year ends so we can negotiate with the constructor. Here, it takes 8 months to construct a house including all the paper works and everything. So see, it takes time to wait especially now that I’m so eagerly want to move in to an individual/separate house. I can’t wait to have a little garden to care about and a little backyard to clean. Char!

our dream house, or this could be just up to dreams ;)

Baby teething…

2008-11-27T12:36:00.000+01:00

Last month, MK and I were so curious to see when Blanche will be having her first tooth. Just last week we’ve seen a tiny white thing emerged in her lower gums. Tooth. It’s not just one but two. We are happy to see the growing teeth each time she smiles or even cries just whenever she opens her mouth. On the other side, problem starts to come during teething stage. Blanche got a fever last Monday and we phoned the Pediat for advice. She said to give Blanche a Doliprane (a suppository medication for infant’s fever and pain) every 6 hours and if it still continues we need to bring Blanche in her clinic. The fever was on and off in the past 2 days, or shall I say it’s out in day time and back in the evening time. So just yesterday that I felt not so convinced about this fever thing. There must be something else behind that leads to this fever. So we went to the clinic and the Dr. examined everything, only to find out that Blanche got tonsillitis and that’s why she has fever and she’s throwing up sometimes after meal.

She is on med right now with antibiotics for the tonsillitis and fever and for her nose too as part of the infection. Well I was wondering how did she get this viral thing. All her biberons and other gadgets are put into boiling before use. Meanwhile, I’ve searched on the net about teething problem and during this stage it is common to some babies to experience fever, less appetite, less sleep, etc and yes to other babies sometimes they are lucky and do not face any problems while teething.

Oh my poor baby is a little sick, less play for today but I do hope this teething problem will last soon.

Pinoy nigths at L'Outil Théâtre (Montpellier)

2008-11-18T17:06:00.001+01:00

Countries of the world have their own cultures made more colourful, beautiful and vibrant because of folk dances that are a reflection of who they are and what they are. In the East, the Chinese have their symbolical dragon dance; the Japanese have the ancestral dance Bon Odori. In the West, the Americans have their Square Dance. The Scottish people have their world-famous dances (Highland and Country Dance, Jig and Reel). On the other hand, the Philippines have variety of folk dances too. Here they are...

Binasuan

Tinikling

Itik-itik

With me and the dancers

So glad to learn that every now and then the Association Franco-Philippine will hold shows to various places in France. I have witnessed their show for the first time last Saturday and the Pinays were so moved to perform and its profit goes to some schools in the remote villages of the Philippines. It’s nice! isn't it?

http://asfrancophilippine.site.voila.fr/

Hanging out at the Showroom Disco Bar with Clara right after the show...

And I've met them...

2008-11-17T14:45:00.000+01:00

I was really thankful the day I have my Philippine driver’s license translated months ago to a certain Madame Cammal. Not only having my driver’s license in France, but also she’s my gateway to meet all the Filipinas and their association in this region where I live. She’s a native from Belgium who married a French man and settled in France. In her 20’s she met and found her best friend named Madame Himaya, a Filipina settled in the nearby community with her French husband. So when I met Himaya I have known her that she’s the secretary of the Association Franco-Philippine and later she introduced me to fellow pinays in town.

Now, I’ve been happier than before because I can meet them every now and then, have some funs and more.

Epidural Anesthetic

2008-11-14T09:49:00.000+01:00

It was exactly 12 midnight when I started feeling on and off contractions, and I thought I was on my week of giving birth. I felt continuous pain every 10 to 20 minutes but I managed to hold it until we arrived in the hospital in the morning time and after my gynecologist checked me she said that “it’s just the beginning” means the childbirth process and I will give birth in the next 48 hours. I thought if I go home I would lose all my strength to wait in the next 2 days. So I chose to stay in the hospital and wanted to give birth on the same day. So they asked me if I would like to take the Epidural Anesthetic (An epidural is a method of controlling pain during childbirth. It is a form of regional anesthesia, which means feelings of pain from a part of the body are blocked while a person remains conscious.)

MK was on my side and he told me that I looked like I don’t need the epidural anesthetic. He said this because he saw my face as if it was not so disturbed with the pain. Well, I was hesitant to take it but each time I have contractions it pushes me to say yes to it and so I did. Later, I was sent to the delivery room and the anesthesiologist did the epidural anesthesia in the lower spinal cord, it failed at first because it did not work and so the second was perfect. Oh I was on terrible pain for that injection, but I always thought it would be more painful later if I don’t take it. Just a matter of minutes I felt very less pain and in the next few hours I was induced and gave birth normally.

I find this epidural anesthetic comfortable too because once the birth labor is done, another vial of anesthesia will be injected through the thin extension tube from the spinal cord and so doctor can begin her final job to remove the placenta inside, cleaning and everything.

This is a safe method and it is practice everywhere in the world. Still it’s the choice of every woman.

Oh Mother

2008-11-13T10:27:00.000+01:00

Once a week or a month I would still dream about my late mother. Often times, we were talking and she’s telling me that she’s about to die soon and/or she doesn’t want to die yet something like that. It makes me remember almost 4 years ago at the hospital where she was confined for a month of severe pain in her liver. Only to find out that she has metastasis grown wildly in her liver that was originally from her breast cancer (she had mastectomy on May 2003 but never been in chemotherapy). Her liver swelled to the maximum level that was so painful to filter digested foods, thereby making her vomit after each meal. We’ve seen the ultrasound result of her liver and the doctor told us it’s getting worst and my mother will pass away anytime soon. I was in tears inside hearing the doctor’s conclusion. All I can do that time was pray hoping to have a miracle for her for I saw how she’s strong enough to fight the pain even though she knew she’s to die soon. I told her not to give up and she never did until the time her frail body surrendered itself. She died at 71 yrs old.

I knew she can’t accept her death at first for some reasons, but I hope she found her peace and acceptance in the other world. Sad to see, that no else saw the things that she could see today especially me having "la grande" and "la petite or le petit" coming soon.

Well I’ve learned that death is one of the most inevitable changes in our lives. So be it.

It’s cold once again. (late autumn)

2008-11-12T16:49:00.000+01:00

When the month of November sets in, I’ve always wished to go home to Cebu to escape the cold season. Winter is coming thereby making the wind blows colder and colder. I don’t like to wear thick layers of cloth, and/or feel pain on my nose. It is the season with the shortest days and the lowest temperatures. Sun rises as late as 8h to 9h on average and sets at 18h and later it will set earlier at 16:30h. Since we lived in the southern part the lowest temperature we could have in winter is -0 to -5ºC and it depends year by year. January is the coldest month.

As the days shorten in autumn, the birds start to migrate to warmer region like Africa for food availability and have greater opportunity for breeding birds to feed their young. So no wonder, colder season is a bit silent, the weather minus the birds and minus the people spending time on the benches around.

Now, I could only recall when I was in Cebu, with its beautiful-warm weather and average temperature throughout the year, nothing compares. It’s always the thing that I miss. But I hope to love the cold season in the future time. Ekk...

Lourdes, France

2008-11-08T09:31:00.000+01:00

I can't wait the time for MK to take his one week vacation next month so I can book the hotel reservation, because we are set to go to Lourdes of France. Actually, this is the place in France that I really wanted to visit first but last year I was hesitant of taking long hours trip by car. So this time I am ready and excited for Blanche will be with us on the trip too. It takes 6 hours drive to go there, plus stopover for Blanche's biberon or snack, doesn't matter.

What is there in Lourdes? Well, I am not religious but I felt so moved to go there and visit the Notre Dame de Lourdes (Our Lady of Lourdes). There were more than a dozen apparitions of Mama Mary on February--July, 1858 to Bernadette. For further story please check the site below. It's quite moving, go on...read...

http://www.catholicpilgrims.com/lourdes/ba_bernadette_intro.htm

St. Bernadette on her death, April 16, 1879

Midnight Poison

2008-11-07T14:51:00.000+01:00

I don't used to put on perfumes before because it irritates my sensitive nose as I have a bit problem on it, but a month ago, I noticed that I like to wear or smell the scent of perfumes. I have an old bottle of perfumes from Dubai which MK gave to me while he visited in Cebu years ago. But strange it seems, I'm craving for other more scented perfumes. Each month or so MK goes to Great Britain for his work assignment and so I requested him to buy a Christian Dior perfume and so he bought me one last month. It's my first CD Poison collection--the Midnight Poison perfume and I put some of it before going to bed. It smells younger and fresher and not so heavy. Funny but it's true and I still want the other Poison perfumes. Perhaps this could be part of the pregnancy stage, I don't know yet or maybe I think my baby's got a little secret inside.

Midnight Poison is the fifth fragrance in the Christian Dior Poison saga.

Maternité (Motherhood)

2008-11-06T17:53:00.001+01:00

You will never know how much endless love and painful sacrifices your mother did to you from the moment you were born, until you become a mother of your own. I have spent 30 years with my mother before she died and I never realized how I was taken cared of when I was an infant. In fact, I've asked her one time about rearing a new born infant, she explained to me and I forgot it after awhile. For me it has no impact and importance while I was single. Later, when I set in into a marriage life and got pregnant I was wondering then how it feels like to be a mother? I tried to recall what my mother told me but I have forgotten it and it's too late for she's nowhere to call anymore. How to do this and that? I have so many doubts. Will I give up? or can I survive this? I was not so sure.

I have all the answers of these questions when I gave birth to Blanche almost 8 months ago. I have some sleepless nights in her early months, preparing her milk, changing her diapers, etc, I felt like a zombie then. My hubby helped me sometimes and not because he was too tired from work to lift up himself in the middle of the night so I would rather take Blanche and put her in my arms whenever she cries, until she falls asleep or at least to calm her down.

Don't forget to mention bathing the baby everyday. Well, these things become a daily routine for a mother. Being a mother is not so simple, lots of challenges to come, ahead and is waiting but at the moment taking care of my baby everyday is really worth of my time and behind all the sacrifices and efforts, there always lies a great joy in my heart and I end each day with a smile on my face for this is the labor of love.

So it is always said, there is no greater gift a mother can give than to lay down her life to her child.